Note to readers: You may notice a bit of relationship obsession in my blog lately. This isn’t stereotypical female behavior. No. Until very recently, I was a contented, single woman who blithely regarded weddings as a good way to ruin a Saturday. Then Prince Charming and Beauty Queen announced the date of their wedding. Even a completely liberated, modern female will resort to obsessive boyfriend-seeking when faced with the option of going stag to her THIRD sibling wedding.
I’ve finally figured out how to use my powers for good. It’s been an ongoing quest since a conversation I had with my father, a psychologist, several years ago. We were fishing in Alaska and the inevitable conversation regarding my unmarried status occurred.
My father is truly flabbergasted by the fact that I remain single. He predicts my marriage every year. He was busy with this decree when I decided to admit my own failings.
“Dad, I have an unusual gift. I both attract and repel men at the same time. When I’m not interested in them, they follow me around with free stuff and marriage proposals*. But when I actually take them seriously, they run in the opposite direction. I don’t see a way out of this dilemma.”
As a brilliant therapist, my father diagnosed my problem. “Well, you must be changing your behavior when you’re interested, so the key is to be the same regardless of whether you’re interested or not. Then this ‘gift’ of yours won’t be in effect.”
“But, Dad,” I implored. “How will that benefit mankind?”
Okay, so it was more about stopping the conversation than actually helping my fellow man, but the question got me thinking. Certainly, there must be a way to use this strange talent.
The discovery of my true calling came quite by accident. I had stumbled across the LAPD in the middle of yet another SWAT activity. The tall, red-haired captain shook his head when he saw me. “My, my! You certainly show up often at these events.”
“Never met a drama I didn’t assimilate!” I joked. “So, who you after?”
“Kidnapper. Took his two kids.”
“Oh, good looking guy with 2 adorable girls? I just saw him. He bought my train ticket for no apparent reason.”
“Well, supposedly a great guy, good job, kind, loves his kids, good to his mother, and loyal to his wife before she went crazy and took up drug dealing. A real catch if it weren’t for this crazy kidnapping thing.”
He sounded interesting, so I asked, “How long do you get for kidnapping your kids? Any chance he’ll be out before I’m 40?”
The captain looked at me, but before he could swallow his disbelief and answer my question, the perpetrator came running out of hiding. He confessed to the kidnapping, multiple parking discretions, and cheating on his SATs. As they handcuffed him, he looked in my direction and said, “Just promise she won’t visit!”
The captain looked at me inquiringly. I shrugged, “This sort of this happens to me. If I’m interested, they’re booking it out of town.”
The captain and I started a dialogue. With a little more practice, I was able to hone my skills for use with less attractive candidates. I enter their domain, get them to give me free stuff (guns, drugs, whatever) and then only have to think they might be interesting. The mark runs immediately to the police station to request a very lengthy prison sentence or exile to uninhabitable lands.
I am now permanently on the LAPD** payroll, keeping the streets safe one rejection at a time.
*I am the proud recipient of 3 unexpected, unwanted marriage proposals. It’s probably not a record, but it’s certainly noteworthy.
**I know they ‘look’ inept and pistol-happy to the average newspaper reader, but that’s really our clever cover story. Can’t have the public knowing that one slightly attractive female is responsible for saving the streets. Thanks to our governor, I can’t afford the lawyer and/or publicist I would need to get me through that kind of attention.
40 comments:
I’m still not sure why you turned me down 3 times but continue to stalk me day and night…
I'm a complicated woman...can't have you but refuse to let you go...har, har.
Why do you get to have all the fun with cops? I cry "foul!".
BTW - "hot motorcycle cop" was on the news last week. I'm going to marry him someday.
The humor seems to be lost on my lineage as I am the only remaining male member of my family. Apparently, the tradition ends here with me, unless I can somehow become pregnant myself… I’m working on that… so far… not so much.
Monty Python reference: Where will you keep the fetus? In a box? I would be more reassuring about your chances of progeny, but it's against the stalker bill of rights.
Cate - it's at these moments that I resent not living in Utah. I missed hot cop on TV? Was he still hot? You are totally going to marry him, even if I have to take a sabbatical at work (or they fire me for blogging all day) and come help you stalk him...
I think it’s time for some amendments to that bill of rights… I’m putting S.P.A.M. on it.
Yep. Still hot. Even in a regular uniform, not the moto uniform with the uber-sexy boots and tight pants. He may not realize it, but he is my density. Do please come and help with the stalking. I'm such a novice when it comes to these things.
He is your density?
Yes, density. Deliberate twist on destiny and reference to 'Saturday's Warrior' - the drippingly cheesiest thing to ever emerge from Mormon culture. And not in a good way, either.
That's why I didn't get it. Thanks for clarifying.
And glo, I think what you are doing for LA law enforcement is commendable. Bravo.
Yeah, I didn’t get that density thing either, but for fear of looking foolish, I just smiled and nodded. I probably looked foolish anyway… it’s in my nature.
Jon - Them's fighting words. We sweat blood (but we kinda like that) in an abandoned factory for almost 30 minutes before SRSA ratified that Bill...however, we always welcome SPAM (in any tasty variety - 2nd Monty Python reference).
Cate - will, of course, help. And *sniff* Saturday's Warrior is the MOST romantic of all the lame-o Mormon films I have endured (still shuddering over Baptists at my Barbecue). HOWEVER, and how I am enjoying this moment, 'Density' is a reference to Back to the Future. George McFly says it.
'Mar - I can always rely on your support. It's a tough life, I'm at the hospital all day, then cleaning the streets at night, but I'm coping, y'know. (Sometimes, I feel that what I write is completely superfluous to any experience people have on my blog. It's more like a message board with a daily welcome entry.)
I didn’t realize you guys spent 30 whole minutes on it. (oh come one!!! What’s my nickname!?!?!!?!?!?!!?!? <- can’t you feel the frustration?)
DENSITY is most definitely from Saturday's Warrior. Believe me - I will never forget the most torturous hours of my Mormon culture indoctrination.
Now off to use Google to prove my point.
What is “Saturday’s Warrior?” Some sort of Mormon training video?
If everyone gets really quiet, they can hear Cate screaming in defeat.
Jon - I wanted to know the reasons for the ninjas and we ALL wanted a squirrel fight. Sometimes life is just cruel this way....
I really don’t know, but I didn’t have a hard time thinking about Crispin Glover saying that line…
Saturday's Warrior is a 1970's Mormon play about the plan of salvation. To explain more would require a detailed doctrinal explanation and/or exposure to the video of the play.
While it was seriously cheesy, stereotypical and down-right worthy of ridicule, it remains the reason my mother chose to have more children (mainly me), so I refuse to criticize it.
Please not Cate hiding rather than admit her error. BTW - I am ashamed of all people who haven't memorized the "Lorraine, you are my density" speech - the most romantic geek proposal ever!
Hmm… that last comment of mine came out of place… G-lo, be honest, all you really want to know is where your ninja name came from…
That movie sounds vaguely familiar. I grew up in a Lutheran Church, and when I was in HS, we all decided as a group that we wanted to know more about other religions, so we watched some videos and stuff. I remember something about a Mormon video that lead me to believe that Mormons think having lots of kids will help them eventually populate a planet of their own when they pass on to the next life… am I completely making that up?
I will gladly admit that my vanity demands I understand the puzzle. Since I haven't the intellect to uncover the mystery, I have resorted to my true talent - grade school style manipulation. In effect, I will continue to tease you with the nickname as though I were holding your glasses, backpack, etc., just out of reach. When you give in and tell me what I want to know, then I will consider reciprocating...
You grossly underestimate my patience.
Google may have failed me, but I REFUSE to admit defeat. While I concede that "density" is used by George McFly in Back To The Future, I maintain that it is also used in Saturday's Warrior. And since I won't ever be watching SW again - my masochistic tendencies only go so far - I will maintain the SW/density connection to my dying day.
It’s a little known fact that “Back to the Future” was based loosely on the Book of Mormon, so it’s entirely possible that the reference originate in SW.
Jon - How intriguing! I feel a challenge coming on...perhaps you underestimate my stubbornness (if we had light sabers and a big empty pointless room this scene would be AWESOME!)
Cate - Ha, ha. Way to attempt the graceful dismount after a crash and burn. My family loves to make fun of Mormon culture so much that we DELIGHT in rewatching SW almost as much as Johnny Lingo - but the "Mahana! You ugly!" line will always trump the "Will you wait for me" song.
My will is tremendous. I routinely wait on hold for several hours just to talk to people that can’t really help me, but know the number of several other people who probably can’t help either… bring it.
BTW, I now feel part of the in-crowd with the one syllable nickname.
You're to LA what Batman is to Gotham. Batglo.
Impressive. I remain unaffected. Faced with the same challenge, I would call a different office and sweet-talk my way into getting help. I was once invited to a baby shower after someone trouble-shot an error message. My powers of manipulation are strong, young Paduan.
There are no other offices to call when dealing with mortgage companies. I have been baptized in its hell fires and I cannot be manipulated.
Ouch. Sorry. I concede this point (but not the war - evil laughter ensues).
Oh - I almost forgot, thanks to Omar's "Batglo" comment, I have changed from one to two syllable nicknames. Thus far, I have the following worked out: Cate-Kat, Vole-mar, Jazzy, Li'l Sam, P-Chef, Jam-Jam.
Jon, of course, does not get to know his 2-syllable nickname until he tells me what my ninja means.
Cate-Kat? I don't like it. Pick something different.
BTW - You ask for movies, I give you movies, and what do I get? Nada, no comments, nothing.
I have no interest in some sort of egregious two syllable name, I care only about unnecessarily redundant one syllable names for people that don’t need them. Your feeble attempt to make me jealous has failed.
Drat you kids and your emotionally complicated desires! (have changed cultural reference due to interaction with Scrooby).
Your jealousy, then, is superfluous to my design. I will have to find new torture method.
Unless you have some re-runs of “Zoobilee Zoo,” you’ll be hard pressed to find something to torture me with… right now, I think I’m winning the torture battle…
Jam-Jam? Woohoo!
Of course this means I'll have to change basically everything on a few recent posts, but that's a small price to pay in my small way of thinking.
No, that's not right...where was I?
So in the next name evolution, who gets to become Jar-Jar? Me, or Mr. I'm Winning The Torture Battle, hmm?
This is embarrassing. I'm being cited in a reference that I completely fail to get. I guess I don't even listen to myself.
Also: isn't this some kind of false advertising? "38 people" my ass. Four people plus the blogger, by my reckoning. Honestly, shameless puffery, I just don't know...
[she says, revealing unbecoming degree of envy and insecurity brought on by own blog-deprived state and growing fear of what statcounter will say...]
Jon - I do more yoga. Soon I will be within my evil zen den and no one will be able to stop the diabolical torture.
Jam-Jam (or Jam or Rad-jam-jam - have yet to choose today's # of syllables) - There will be no Jar-Jar. That amount of evil I could not withstand.
Scroob - I know you don't get the reference, as it applied to real-world, not blog-world. Look for today's post on how much I've blurred the two.
I apologize for the comment padding. Once again, it's Jon's fault. Flame him until he tells me what my ninja means.
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